We're Gonna Have Words
A show where we discuss, debate, explore (and sometimes argue) topics on life, love, relationships, and family. Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform! HAVE WORDS WITH US! Find us on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram and (sometimes) Twitter @GonnaHaveWordsMandy on IG: @havewordswithHERE on IG: @gonnahavewordsWANT ACCESS TO EXCLUSIVE CONTENT?? (like video and live streams) Join us in the conversation in our private Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/42744...Enjoying the show? Buy us a coffee!!https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GonnaHav...https://ko-fi.com/gonnahavewords** your support will help with production of the show/ or actual coffee :) THANK YOU!ALL ACCESS TO THE LINKS:https://linktr.ee/GONNAHAVEWORDSEmail Us: GonnaHaveWords@gmail.com
Episodes
31 episodes
LIVE Episode: Everything Isn't Always Something
In this episode we are discussing how everything isn't always something, How past experiences, pains and traumas can effect our perceptions in certain situations. And we went and seen the comedian David Arnold!Be sure to subscribe so you do...
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Episode 30
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1:13:44
LIVE Episode: What Do You Bring to the Table in your relationship?
In this episode we are discussing what "bringing something to the table." means and what it is that you bring to the relationship. Does it differ for men and women?Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring! ...
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Episode 29
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1:15:05
MID-WK-LIVE Episode: Relationship Qualities
In this episode we are discussing the qualities that attract you in beginning of the relationship vs the qualities that now sustain the relationship. How has it changed?Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring!&n...
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Episode 28
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1:01:56
We're Gonna Have Words LIVE: Sex/Life, Spicing Up Sex in Marriage
In this episode we discuss the conclusion of Sex/Life series on Netflix, Spicing up sex in marriage, and do's and don'ts.Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring! If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT on your soc...
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Episode 27
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1:11:17
LIVE Episode: WGHW Podcast 1yr Anniversary & Sex/Life
In this episode we discuss and reflect the 1 yr anniversary of WGHW podcast. What we have learned along way, what changed as well as what is to come, and some goals we have in mind. We also discuss the Sex/Life show on Netflix, what we agree/di...
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Episode 26
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1:18:32
LIVE Episode: Triggered by Words
In this episode we are discussing Trigger Words. Are you knowingly using trigger words with your spouse? Are you triggered? How to identify and manage when you are triggered.Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode....
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Episode 25
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1:06:35
Father's Day- Underappreciated Dads/Work Life Balance/Stress LIVE Episode
In this episode we are discussing Father's Day, The Role of Dad being under appreciated and balancing work/life and stress. (PLEASE NOTE: We were having some mic/sound issues in this episodes. We apologize. We'll do better next time. Thank ...
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Episode 24
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1:13:02
Vulnerability in Relationships- LIVE Episode
In this episode we discuss what vulnerability is in a relationship. What it means for us, our errors/corrections, and how it benefits a relationship (or not.) Vulnerability: Men VS Women- is one likely to be more vulnerable than the other?B...
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Episode 23
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1:10:35
Reactions/Responses and Apologies:(LIVE) Episode
We are discussing reactions and responding while communicating. What determines or triggers your responses and reactions. "Its too late to apologize." Is there such a thing? Apologizing vs Excuses.A multicultural married couple discuss, deb...
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Episode 22
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1:11:57
"Spousal Support": Supporting your Spouse and their Ambitions, Dreams and Emotions.
We are discussing support in relationships. Supporting your spouse's ambitions, dreams and emotions. The Kite & String/Rock Theory. Does your spouse saying " I feel this in my spirit" make you feel like you HAVE to support them even ...
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Episode 22
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1:23:46
INFIDELITY-(LIVE) EPISODE: Everybody cheats?
In this episode we discuss: If all men/women cheat in some form? What is considered cheating? What aspects of infidelity makes it so egregious to you?Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring! If you enj...
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Episode 21
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1:18:22
Ageism & Age Gaps in Relationships LIVE Epsisode
In this episode we are discussing age gaps in relationships and ageism. Are men treated/judged differently as they age than women? Does the size of age gap matter in relationships? What are the challenges with age gaps?****...
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Episode 20
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1:04:03
Interracial /Multicultural Relationship Challenges (LIVE) Episode
In this episode we are discussing Interracial/ Multicultural Relationships: The challenges those relationships may face, Our ethnic backgrounds and challenges, Did you always date outside your ethnicity? and How does your family feel abou...
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Episode 19
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1:16:16
Pettiness in Relationships (LIVE) Episode: Who's the most petty in your relationship?
In this episode we discuss pettiness in relationships. Who is the most petty in your relationship? Who is more petty, Men or Women? Does your pettiness have a limit? & more!Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sha...
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Episode 18
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1:25:00
BONUS (LIVE) EPISODE- VALENTINES SPECIAL- Is the romance/sex different?
In this episode we will discuss Valentines Day- To celebrate or NOT to celebrate. Our stance on this. Questions for our audience: Is the romance/sex different for Valentines Day/ Expectations? We also cover the Topic Suggestion: How to re...
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Episode 17
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1:12:53
BONUS (LIVE) EPISODE- Money Matters & Sexual Dealings
In this bonus live stream episode we discussed how to get your spouse to buy in on money matters and sexual dealings. Managing expectations, dealing with rejections and respecting each others boundaries. E asks for Gold Stars and a stripper pol...
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Episode 16
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1:12:50
Expectations of Reciprocity in Relationships
In this episode we discuss expectations of reciprocity in relationships. Should one just know to reciprocate what is given or does there need to be a conversation about expectations of the relationship. Do the expectations of reciprocity ...
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Episode 15
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1:03:32
New Year Mindset & Mental Health (Don't Shake the Strawberries)
In this episode we discuss new year mindsets. 2021 outlook, expectations and New Year Resolutions.. Mental health and our differing perspectives on counseling/therapy. -Choosing thoughts and feelings and Self-care Communicating your feelings wh...
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Episode 14
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1:18:18
Stay at Home Parent vs Provider - Who has the toughest job?
In this episode we discuss societal perspectives, stigmas for stay at home parents vs the provider. Who has the toughest job? We share our experience with reversal of the roles. How do you show appreciation to the bread winner? How do you...
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Episode 13
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1:32:01
Privacy, Secrets & Lies
In this episode we discuss, explore (and argue a little) about Privacy, Secrets and Lies in marriage. What is privacy in marriage. Is it privacy or is it secrecy? Secrets VS lies, Digital Device/ Cell Phone Privacy, E gets controver...
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Episode 12
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1:06:32
Lost In Emotion - When talking is a challenge and listening is absent.
In this episode we discuss: How emotions challenge communication. Being lost in emotions- Emotional Baggage both inside and outside the relationship. Triggers and blaming. Communication languages. Putting divorce on the table and Vulnerability....
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Episode 11
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1:12:37
Let's Talk About Sex: Battle of the Sexes- Sex on The Brain
In this extension of L.T.A.S.: Battle of the Sexes- Sex on the Brain; we open up the discussion of how men and women think differently and how this process effects how we think about sex. We explore emotions, communication, and how the wa...
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Episode 10
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48:35
Let's Talk About Sex: Frequency- Why it changes after marriage.
L.T.A.S. (Let's Talk About Sex); Frequency- Why it changes after marriage. In this episode we discuss the Taboo topic of how sex changes after marriage. The common reasons why a wife might look at sex with her husband as a chore....
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Episode 9
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1:07:44
At Your Service: How do you serve your spouse?
In this episode we discuss what it means to serve your spouse. How you serve your spouse. Do you feel appreciated or underappreciated how? How to tell your spouse how they can serve you. And as usual random karaoke.Be sure to subscribe so y...
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Episode 8
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1:05:20